Bonhomie Mediation: A Values Driven Experience
Bonhomie Mediation guides parties in conflict through a simple, reliable process that is geared towards creating practical solutions for real- world problems and which is designed to help them feel seen, heard, understood and respected.
We seek to make mediation accessible and readily available for whatever conflict you may be currently navigating and can customize your experience for your particular needs.
Your process is built on Bonhomie Mediation’s values.
The Fundamental Work of Mediation
When parties choose mediation, they choose to willingly cooperate with those they are in conflict with, albeit in a safe and supportive environment.
The parties take turns articulating their perspective and hearing that of the other. As the discussion progresses, participants integrate new information and respond. Through this process, a shared narrative of the conflict emerges.
A co-created shared narrative of the conflict often provides fertile ground for solutions.
Our Core Values
1. Self-Determination & autonomy
Autonomy is the foundation of effective mediation.
Our approach is centered on empowering you to make your own decisions in a supportive, pressure-free environment. Our commitment to autonomy is rooted in our belief that each individual holds the key to their own best solutions.
We provide a balanced, collaborative space where your voice is heard and respected, enabling you to craft solutions that truly reflect your needs and aspirations. We guide the process, but you determine how and where it goes, ensuring outcomes that are not only fair but also feel right to you.
2. impartiality & neutrality
At Bonhomie Mediation, our steadfast commitment to neutrality shapes every aspect of our approach to conflict resolution. We believe that true impartiality is fundamental to fostering a space where all parties can engage openly and constructively. The process simply does not work without an impartial mediator, and thus we are committed to deep and unwavering neutrality and consider it to be the essence of our work.
3. availability
At Bonhomie Mediation, we believe in the transformative power of mediation for a wide range of conflicts and situations. Our commitment to availability is rooted in the understanding that mediation should be available regardless of the nature of the conflict.
Whether it's couples seeking to strengthen their relationship, estranged family members exploring paths to reconciliation, teens navigating complex dynamics with peers or parents, or college students opting for an alternative to university-provided resources, we are here to offer a supportive and effective mediation space.
Every conflict is an opportunity for positive change, and we're committed to being available for you, whatever your mediation needs may be.
4. confidentiality
Confidentiality is essential to creating an environment where the mediation process can be successful. This confidentiality extends to every mediation phase, from initial intake and scheduling to the discussions that unfold within our sessions, to maintaining your privacy post-mediation.
The assurance of privacy fosters a setting where discussing the situation and its impact feels safe, encouraging a deeper exploration of the conflict and its solutions. In this confidential space, brainstorming potential resolutions becomes a process of discovery rather than a concession, paving the way for satisfying and workable outcomes.
While a mediated agreement, once signed by all parties, is not confidential unless otherwise specified, the sanctity of the mediation process itself will always be preserved - your privacy is respected and protected.
5. customization
At Bonhomie Mediation, we understand that every conflict is unique. We are dedicated to customizing the mediation experience to fit your specific needs.
We are equipped to adapt to a broad range of needs. This might look like designing mediations for non-legal disputes, conducting mediations in preferred locations, and/or employing shuttle mediation for heightened privacy. Additionally, we can make use of nondisclosure agreements, collaborate closely with legal professionals, and even leverage AI to enhance process efficiency.
Our focus is on understanding your unique situation and preferences, ensuring that the mediation process is not just effective, but also resonates with your personal requirements.
6. workability
Our dedication to workability involves guiding participants toward solutions that are practical and sustainable in real-life situations. We strive to create outcomes that are not only agreeable but also realistically applicable, ensuring that each resolution is as functional as it is fair. By focusing on sustainable, realistic agreements, we help translate mediation into positive, tangible changes, making sure solutions truly fit into the fabric of your daily life.